Grieving the Loss of a Pet
When you lose your best friend—the one you could always count on to be there when you were down, the one who warmed you, played with you, and made you laugh no matter how bad you felt can be a very emotional and confusing experience. Here at Bill Foundation we understand that often thoughts of adopting a new pet coincide with the loss of another. Here are a few things to help you get through the sadness while you grieve.
Remember Feelings are Feelings
Your other friends may not understand how painful it is for you to lose your pet, but only you know how strong the bond was between you. No one else has the right to judge your sorrow.
Turning Sorrow into Joy
Talk to understanding friends about your pet—the good times, the bad times, and the way it ended. Talking about your loss will help you feel better. 
- Make a memorial donation in her memory to an animal shelter and care agency.
- Have a memorial service alone, standing in the woods or by your pet's favorite creek or pond. Bring a cherished photograph to symbolize your pet. Say a prayer or read a poem that expresses your feelings. Leave flowers, dog biscuits, or personal item as a parting gift of remembrance. If you choose to keep or bury your dog's remains, place them in a loving and special place.
- Let yourself feel the pain and the loss, and appreciate all the years you had together.
And remember; of course you can cry.
See below for additional Pet Loss and Grief Counseling links
Pet Loss and Grief Help Links
American Veterinary Medical Association Pet Loss Page
Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement
Facts about Euthanasia (Cornell)
Loss of a Pet: Electronic and Print Resources (Purdue U.)
Pet Loss and Bereavement Resources (Delta Society)
Pet Loss and Grieving Resource Pages
Pet Loss Support Page by Moira A. Allen epared by Gretchen Stephens, VM Librarian, Purdue University